After communicating how nice would be to spend time with him and reaffirming that I trust and like when hes sober; my husband ignore me and promise he will be carefully and decide to go for a weekend bike ride with his friend, as usual he end up drinking and driving and crash hes bike so just got a call with the news that hes in the hospital unable to walk going through surgery as I type… Im upset, ready to give up and also confuse on how its the natural consequences really apply when I’m the one who now has to take care of him… any advice feel blind at the moment thank you